Does G-d Make You Uncomfortable?

There are a lot of reasons to believe in G-d, so why are so many people uncomfortable with this belief?

Approaching this topic with empathy is critical, and understanding that everyone's journey and beliefs are unique. From a philosophical or intellectual perspective, some individuals might struggle to reconcile their understanding of the world with the concept of G-d. They may question the existence of evil or suffering in the world and wonder how a benevolent and all-powerful G-d could allow it to happen. Others may have had negative experiences or associations with religion in their past. This could include encountering hypocrisy, judgmental attitudes, or abuse within religious institutions. These experiences can lead to a loss of trust in organized religion and a subsequent resistance to belief in G-d.

There are also cultural and societal influences at play. In our progressively secular world, there is pressure to conform to a particular worldview that does not include belief in G-d. This certainly contributes to someone feeling uncomfortable about expressing their faith or grappling with doubts.

Part of why this blog was started was to have these vulnerable, compassionate dialogue, while respecting everyone's unique perspective, and trying to connect with others who have different perspectives.

There is a discomfort in believing or comprehending the nature of an intangible, omnipotent, and transcendent being. The concept of G-d often surpasses the limitations of human understanding and can bring feelings or uncertainty and intellectual struggle. Some feel that religious beliefs are incompatible with scientific inquiry or lack empirical evidence.

Believing in G-d is not the sole determinant of spirituality. Spiritual experiences and practices can vary greatly among individuals and cultures. While many religious traditions incorporate a belief in a higher power as a central to their spirituality, there are also forms of spirituality that do not rely on a belief in G-d.

Spirituality can be understood as an exploration of the deeper meaning and purpose of life, a connection with something greater than oneself, and a search for inner peace and fulfillment. This is a quest for transcendent experiences, ethical and moral values, self-reflection, mindfulness, and a sense of interconnectedness with others and the natural world.

For those who choose to be on a spiritual journey, spirituality is very closely linked to their religious beliefs and practices. They find spiritual guidance, connection, and fulfillment through their religious traditions, rituals, and community.

You can also have a spiritual journey without a higher power and find fulfillment through meditation, nature, art, or interpersonal relationships. Their spiritual journey may focus on personal growth, self-discovery, and the search for meaning.

Whether you choose to believe in G-d, that is your choice. But having a spiritual journey of any kind can be a very helpful, explorative experience. Judaism encourages each person to develop their own unique relationships and journeys while incorporating the ethical and moral principles of Jewish teachings.

Psalm 34:9 says "Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him."

This verse suggests an invitation to cultivate a personal and experiential relationship with G-d, acknowledging that spirituality can be a transformative and fulfilling journey.

Two Major Themes in Jewish Teachings Applicable to Any Spiritual Journey

Jewish teachings encompass a wide range of themes that provide guidance and wisdom for all. but the following two are applicable to any spiritual journey.

1. Ethical Living. Jewish teachings emphasize the importance of ethical conduct and righteous living. The Torah and other Jewish texts provide numerous ethical guidelines, emphasizing justice, compassion, honesty, and respect for others. Jews are encouraged to actively engage in behaviors that promote the betterment of society and the world.

2. Tikkun Olam (Repairing the World). This concept urges Jews to engage in acts of social justice, kindness, and service to make the world a better place. Jewish teachings emphasize the responsibility to actively contribute to the welfare of society, promote equality, and alleviate suffering.

In order to create a welcoming environment not only for our own spiritual journey, but the way others feel in their journey, we need to provide support and guidance. We need to be open to having conversations where we ask questions that may not have an answer. We need to allow ourselves to have trust and confidence while also knowing that not everyone has that capacity and some may struggle with their beliefs. We need to encourage each other to explore and find meaning through their spiritual journey.

Even if we believe in G-d, wrestling with doubt and seeking understanding is acceptable and can also lead to a deeper and more authentic spiritual journey.

Wherever you are in your spiritual journey, God speed.

And remember that whatever you gave the day today, it was your best, and that's enough.

-N